For there has to be a "Reason".

It feels great to see things going out your way and having a positive influence by your side... But what if they are not ??

This post traces its roots from a conversation with a friend.

It’s something I‘ve thought about of lately, I dunno how much of it would I be able to express but still giving it a try, maybe if someone can find in a solution to there problem resulting from this post or even see a ray of hope, I would cherish that very moment and will surely make me feel a lot better.

Well judging people, who are two faceted and show you different colours once you are around or off, is very tough and painful. But there is actually nothing you can do about it. Just be nice to everyone because the right kind of people will never form an opinion about you in a hurry and for the rest of the world you need not CARE...!!! Care for only those who truly deserve it, in every sense...

There are certain things which you can’t reason out why they happen. Maybe they “are destined to” or “to teach you a lesson for the future”. But ultimately they happen for the good, even if you realize it in the long run. Even if you find people backbiting on you (with all those creepy mind generated stuff about you) that shows there is a force that is pushing them into it, for there has to be a reason for that to happen and if that reason is not because you did a similar deed to them, than I personally think it shouldn’t be a problem for you at all….

“That’s just the way the world works. Everyone who enters your life comes to you at precisely the time that you most need to learn the lesson they’ve come to teach.”
We human beings think that our lives are governed by random events and that the people who enter and exit do so purely by chance. Nothing could be further from the truth. There’s no chaos in our world, only order. There are no coincidences—ever. Our lives aren’t run by good or bad luck, but by an intelligent process designed to help us evolve into our best selves.”

Well I was never going to find a solution nor do i have the capabilities to direct someone, it's all yours to find out for yourself and thats where the "essence" lies...

Hope it will help you in some form or the other for "there has to be a reason for me putting this post here" ......